Do you know Vanda Miranda?
She’s one of the people who do the morning radio show in one of the best radios in Portugal: Rádio Comercial. To tell you the truth, she’s my favorite :).
And although I don’t know what she wears or how she looks, I’m sure she has lots of style!
Because of the way she is. Because I can “see”, just by the way she talks on the radio, that she’s confident and feels great about herself! And also that she’s kind to other people.
So, here are 3 important factors to have lots of style:
- Liking yourself: this is pretty obvious, because if you don’t like yourself, you don’t have the will to “spend” in yourself the time, energy (and money) it takes to look the way you like.
- Trusting yourself: to trust yourself you need to listen to yourself, so you know what you want and like. If you don’t trust yourself you’ll probably devalue the way you look as being something unimportant (because you’re following other people’s rules, instead of your own.)
- Being kind to other people: This may seem less obvious but have you noticed that “beauty really is in the eye of the beholder” ? When someone doesn’t treat you or others nicely, you don’t like her very much and she also starts looking less cute and interesting.
And there are a lot of other factors who aren’t directly related with what you wear or your image that give you lots of style, like a smile, for example…