Do you believe in your ego, or your Higher Self?

Today I thought about asking you this question, because it makes ALL the difference :) The ego is that voice inside of you, telling you that you’re not enough, that it’s too hard for you, or impossible, because… and the reasons will be many. All the reasons you think you can’t do it, because of how you’ve been conditioned in the past. Maybe it’s because you think you’re too shy, too anxious, or too much. You may think that you’re not loved enough, good enough at what you want to do. And the list goes on and on. That is the list of your ego, so that’s why I was asking you: Do you believe in your ego, or your Higher Self? And the higher self is your true self, who you really are. The ego is that part that created your personality, so that you can fit into the…

What if you’re already enough?

Have you felt that you’re not confident enough, or that you need to believe more in yourself? I’ve felt that way and I think that everyone feels that way from time to time, at least about some things. Do you agree? I think it’s a very common belief that we think we’re not good enough for something we want to achieve. And so, of course we lack confidence and don’t believe in ourselves. But if you think that the belief is just an opinion, an idea that your ego gives you, with the goal to stop you from going for what you are trying to achieve, to keep you in your comfort zone. And on the other hand, keep you constantly trying to improve yourself, so you can be better, and stay in a constant feeling of not being enough… And if you know this, and you know that you…

Are you settling for what you have?

Today I wanted to ask: are you settling for what you have? Maybe you do what I used to do … (and still do, sometimes) Complaining that things aren’t fine, that I don’t want to live like this, that I need more of this and less of that… For example:I need a new oven, I have to get the bikes fixed, I need more time to do what I like, I want to spend more time with my kids… But then… you settle … Oh yes, that’s right, I need to earn more money, it’d be good and all. It’s not working, but… it’s like that, it’s hard to change, it’s easier to stay where I’m at, it’s comfortable, I’m already here… . Oh yes, I want to have more clients but how am I going to do that? I’m already trying, I have my routines, you know how it…

Are you focusing on being happy or on working?

Today I wanted to ask you if you think you don’t have time to take care of yourself, because you need to work on your business. For a long time I heard that our energy comes first, we have to take care of ourselves first, make sure we are happy. Because our business after all, comes from us. You’re responsible for making things happen, for creating your coaching programs or packages, or whatever you want to sell. You’re the one who needs to be there for your customers. And if your energy isn’t good, if you don’t feel good most of the time, how can you do your best work? It seemed like a very good idea, but in practice, I thought I didn’t have the time. Yes, I loved it when I heard that we have to put ourselves first, maybe because what I was doing was the opposite…

More responsability

Today I wanted to talk about responsibility. Because maybe if you have your own business, you also like to avoid responsability. I noticed that was a theme for me, because I always wanted to avoid things that meant that I’d have more tasks to do and be responsible for more things. Why? Because that would reduce my freedom. If I’m responsible for doing something, like a coaching call or a training for a group program, that means, in a way, that I have less freedom. Or I can see it that way. If freedom for me is having my schedule all open and no appointments all day – at least nothing that I must do for other people (that are expecting it). So if you are creating of if you have your own business, that can be a problem. Because you’ll have more responsibility, as things go on, as you…

Do you really believe in your vision? + A key to make it real

Today I wanted to ask you if you believe in your vision.If you are writing like – this would be nice, someday maybe but in the future because this seems so far out, so out of this world, … Are you really believing it? Do you see yourself as having these things, doing this activities, being this person? Can you imagine yourself there and KNOW that it will become reality? That’s where you have power. Because if you feel it’s just a fantasy that never will come true, or even if you aren’t aware of it but that’s what’s there… how can you really create your vision? There’s a difference between writing, saying and believing that will be true and just thinking that it’s a dream that will never happen… What is in the back of your mind? And maybe sometimes you won’t believe, that’s perfectly normal, at least for…

The resistance is the way

Resistance is necessary and good.Although it doesn’t feel as good ;) So the idea is that if you’re feeling like you don’t want to go on, if you want to stop and give up. Or if things aren’t working out, situations and things come up that you can’t understand. That all means you’re on the right path. Of course that sometimes, you’re not on the right path and you just need to change what you’re doing. But most of the time, if you made a decision and you’re going for it and lots of things start coming up… that is amazing. That’s what is needed, what is expected and what happens. You’re trying new things and new things appear. You’re getting out of your comfort zone and it won’t be easy for sure, but it can also be much easier than it is. You just need to understand that it’s…

Are you trying to be perfect?

The perfect life, the perfect business, the perfect you… It’s just stopping you from going to the party ;) What if you could show up as your messy self, as you’re right now? With your style maybe no makeup, a casual outfit. Not knowing more than you know now. Not being more proper or professional. What if you could just be who you are now, and that would be enough? Maybe you stay so close to that perfection ideal, and you want things to go super well, and you compare yourself to others… Maybe you do that to yourself, and you think you’re not good enough. You don’t have those perfect pictures, videos or body. So you can’t do it like her. You can’t show up, you can’t write your posts because you don’t write as well. You can’t show up on video because you don’t speak as well. You…

The world is out to love you

How do you see the world? The people around you? Sometimes I thought that the world was out to get me. That people were against me. That things seemed stacked against me. Does that happen to you? Thinking that no matter what, things aren’t going to change. Life is hard. The World is out to get you. But what if you could see it, in another perspective. What if your view starts to be that the World is out to love you. People are out to love you. Everyone around you is there for you! Isn’t that much better? If that’s your underlying view of the World, that things aren’t for you but against you, you’ll have a hard time appreciating what’s around you. You’re seeing things from the wrong coloured glasses. And so they seem hard, desperate and sad. But if you change the glasses and look from the…

Doing just what you love in business

Is that even possible? But what if you just do what you love and it doesn’t work? What if I need the new hot strategy everyone is doing? Well, you don’t unless that lights you up. Unless it sets your soul on fire and you really want to do it ;) In the end, it comes down to, do you believe you can create a business on your own terms, or do you believe you need to follow the x, y, z strategy? Because, the strategy isn’t the answer. I know because I tried a thousand strategies and in the end, nothing worked, until I started listening more to myself, instead of what’s working out there. So what do you feel is the right path, what do you think is the next step, from love, from possibilities? What do you see as the right next step? But not looking at…

You’re already loved.

There’s nothing you have to do, to become, to have, to start being loved.You are enough just as you are. Everything is well with the World.Things are always improving. Love is all around you. Beauty is all around you. Abundance is all around you.You are amazing. You are great. Nothing can go wrong.You can’t fail! You’re doing the right thing, you’re on the right path. You are powerful. You can do anything you want!Everything is happening for you. You can do anything.I see you, you are amazing. There is no shame. You did your best. Everything is ok.You’re doing your best and that is amazing! You’re only competing with yourself. you are the only one with your advantages and disadvantages. Celebrate yourself, celebrate how far you’ve come, can you see it? You are amazing. I can see you. Just don’t be afraid to put yourself out there, to share your…

When you don’t know the answers… surrender to life

Today I wanted to tell you about a mindset shift that took me from never knowing what to do, to always knowing what to do. From agonizing about my purpose to knowing I’m always living my purpose. And it’s very simple. It’s the way you look at things. It’s what you believe. It’s the way you see the world. For me, I was stuck in this “what’s my purpose” question. Am I doing the right thing? Am I wasting my time? Should I stop doing this because, if I don’t have the results, that means I should be doing something else? No, no and no :) This is what I found out about my purpose: My true purpose is realizing that I’m the true self. That I’m not my ego. It’s to grow, so whatever I do, I’m doing my purpose. Cause whatever I do, it’s taking me there (as…