This week we are going to wear dresses …

Do you wear dresses? I wanted to tell you about wearing dresses, or a piece of clothing you don’t usually wear … Because for a very, very long time, I didn’t wear dresses. There came a time, and I don’t even know when, when I decided that they weren’t right for me, that I no longer knew anything about style and fashion. Maybe after having children? But even before that, I rarely wore a dress. If I went to an event or a party, I always wore the same jeans or classic pants uniform, with a shirt. I also didn’t wear blouses or different tops. I was used to wearing a classic uniform at parties and a casual one in everyday life. But that changed once I went shopping with my sister-in-law and she showed me lots of dresses that looked great on me! I was really amazed, because I…

Acredita em ti

Acredita em ti e muda o mundo Hoje vinha-te falar de acreditares em ti e de acreditares que tudo é possível para ti. Porque o que acontece é que o teu ego, a parte de ti que não acredita que tudo é possível e que só te mostra todas as limitações e como tens que ser MELHOR… Essa parte vai-te tentar parar e dizer que não vale a pena, não consegues, és menos do que os outros.Verdade: todos pensamos que somos menos do que os outros, por isso, o que é que interessa? É só o teu ego, a tentar que sejas mais, melhor. A tentar que melhores porque não és suficiente agora. Mas e se já tivesses tudo o que precisas agora?Para teres sucesso no teu negócio, para teres um homem que adoras, para teres uma vida que adoras?E se já tivesses tudo dentro de ti, e já tiveste,…

Lost in the GAP? + How to Close It

Lost in the GAP? The GAp is a very used term in coaching which means the difference between where you are, and where you want to be! So look around and ask yourself, where are you now?And what is your goal, where do you want to be? With your business it can be that you’re starting out and you want to be at 10k months or 5k months. And how can you get there? You’re always in a Gap, because you always have new goals. And it’s in the GAP that we evolve and grow to the next level. While you’re in the GAP you’re learning new things, that will help you to close the gap and arrive at the other side. And you can have a gap in many areas of your life, of course. Each gap is another thing to conquer, to arrive at, to make life fun.…

Too weird

Too weird, doing the wrong things, … Today I wanted to tell you about bringing to yourself, the parts you reject. What you don’t want to accept or feel it’s unacceptable. For example, today I had a dream in which I realized that I don’t want people to think I’m weird, that I’m strange. And so, I need to show a personality to the world. What is it? The personality of being a normal person. Having everything decided, figured out. To be like everyone else. This is reminding me of how I don’t like to see women that people call extravagant. I’m afraid to be like them … And what we’re afraid of, harms us, because it prevents us from being who we really are. Because the truth is that I have a strange part inside me, an extravagant part, and that part, I rejected. And it stayed in my…

Why not, living an amazing life… starting today?

Today I wanted to tell you that your life is pretty amazing, right now! Don’t you agree? Maybe you’re answering no to that, but if you were really feeling grateful and seeing all the good that is in your life, you’d be amazed about how your life can feel amazing right now! Yes, many times or maybe all the time, it’s us, that are making it hard. Can it be easy for you? I had a call with one coach, some years ago, where she told me that: Why don’t I let it be easy? And I realized I was making it so much harder on myself, than it had to be… You know that if we’re in our ego, believing we are our ego, there is never enough, we are never satisfied and we’re always seeing all that’s wrong around us. But what if you could instead, see the…

The faith that moves mountains

Today I wanted to tell you about having that level of faith, that literally moves mountains! Are you believing 100% in yourself in your business? And you don’t even need 100%, just 51%, so you tip the scale to your side ;) Today I wanted to tell you about new beginnings. Beginning a new life where you are not who you were anymore. And you become this new person, which was you all along. But you didn’t even notice her… Because you were just stuck, being your usually persona. We are made of habits. We got used to be this person, this limited person, closed in a box. The box that we carefully created to protect us from everything outside. The thing is, that box isn’t needed, you can break free from it and do anything you want. And how can you do that? First, realize there is a box.…

How to stay motivated even if you don’t have any clients yet

Today I wanted to tell you about motivation. And the right question is: Why are you doing this? Is this your life’s work? Are you doing this work because you love to do it, because it’s the thing you want to do? If you’re prepared to do whatever it takes to do this, and if you believe that you can do it. If you really know that it’s all in your mind and that you can create anything you want… It doesn’t matter what’s happening around you, right? It’s about staying the course, doing what needs to be done, until you get there! To your vision, that you know you can create. Since you are the creator of your life, you can choose to be in a good state of mind, you can choose to have a vision and create what you really want. So the motivation comes from creating…

How to work doing what you really love

Are you doing it the other way around? Are you trying to create a business by forcing things? By trying to choose the right strategy, trying to figure out what to do by making lists, ticking things off the list? The first thing to know, to create a business you really love, is what you really love to do! But we are limited with that! Why? Because, when we were younger, we denied some parts of ourselves. Maybe your friend made fun of the thing that lighted you up, maybe you didn’t feel understood by your parents, teachers, or whoever… And you decided that you needed to be someone else. Now you’re in the World, not really knowing who you are, and not really knowing what you want to do! A key thing to change that, is to know who you really are. To know what you really love, on…

Trust + capacity in your business

Do you feel you’re capable in your business? https://www.youtube.com/embed/B_oxZtmO_ZY Do you believe in yourself, your actions, your decisions? Do you feel you can trust yourself? Here’s a mindset shift that helped me get out of the times when I was feeling discouraged, ready to give up my business, 3 or 4 years ago: Going from I don’t know what I’m doing, this isn’t working, I can’t do it anyway.. why even try? Going from doubting everything I had done until that moment, to: I always make the right decision, I always take the right action, and everything is perfectly Ok exactly as it is. How does that feel? I know that for me it felt really good, to be able to stop doubting myself and believe, that I was doing a good job! To believe that my decisions and actions up until that moment, were correct, had their own meaning.…

Your weaknesses are your greatest strengths

Your weaknesses are your strengths Today I wanted to tell you a story that shows how our weaknesses are our greatest strengths! In 1986, I went to Macau, to live there with my parents and my sister. I didn’t want to go. I told my parents that I didn’t want to go. When I got there, as soon as I got off the plane and into the air of Macao, I hated everything. The smell made me sick. The level of humidity, I was always transpired, as soon as I reached the street. It made me crazy! The first year was terrible, as people had told us. “The first year is always the worst”. It’s the adaptation year. And I just wanted that year to end. It didn’t take me too long to adapt to Macau, to love the smells, the humidity, the heat and even … the lack of…

How to have more success in your business & life

Today I wanted to tell you about your energy. Are you in an energy of abundance, of letting things into your life, or an energy of repelling things? Are you believing in your capacity to make things happen, and are you considering that the Universe is helping you get there (as long as you listen to your higher self)? Life is hard is just a construct, a saying from the ego. But life can be really easier. It all depends on what you believe you need to be, do, have, day to day. Do you believe you can spend all day long doing what you love, and be paid for it? Or does that look like a very stupid, unreasonable promise, that is impossible to fulfill? Do you believe that you need to work hard, long hours, to be the best at what you do? And can you believe you…

What are you giving your life for?

Hi! Today I wanted to talk about living the life you really want to live! When will you do it? The other day I said to my daughter: When I’m really old, I’ll live by the beach. And then you’ll come visit and spend your days with me, at my house by the beach! But this post is not about houses, or about where you live. It’s about not leaving to tomorrow, what you can do today. My daughter asked me: But why will you only go when you’re old? Lol, obvious question now that I think about it. If I want something, why not do it now? If I want to spend more time with my children, how can I do it now? If I want to do what I like all day long, why not start now? If I want a business where I only work 2 to…