Here’s a simple idea that is  essential if you wanna have a style you love:

To have lots of style you need to love yourself

Why?

To start, if you don’t like yourself, you tend to focus on your faults and not your qualities. That makes you feel low about your image and it takes away your will to change or improve.

And it can get worse… when you start thinking it’s impossible for you (because you don’t believe in yourself).

Here’s one example of how it might go:

You’re going to choose an outfit for a special event.

You start thinking positive thoughts: “I’m going to make a great outfit and I’m going to look stylish, etc.”

But then, as you try on different outfits, and things don’t go as you expected them, you start to think negative thoughts: “I can’t do this, why doesn’t it work? It isn’t worth it, I’m sick of this. Etc.”