Today I want to tell you about having all the power.

I used to be a victim, see like a victim, think like a victim.

I saw myself as the victim.

I can’t do this because this person did this to me…

I can’t take my architecture course because my father didn’t let me do it.

I can’t think because this relationship is driving me crazy.

I can’t make this business work because there’s too much competition.

Everything that you see out there, is wrong. In the matter of changing your life, or of influencing your life.

Because you are the one who creates your life.

I’ve been more and more aware of this lately. As I’m training with the life coach course I’m taking, where we talk about how you create your own reality…

I’ve been noticing the little things where I give my power away.

Like: All this stress and yelling in the morning, why don’t they shut up already? And now I won’t have enough energy. How can I work well with this going on?

Me saying that I can give up my things, because others influenced my day.

I just gave all my power away right there.

Another one: I’m feeling off today, I don’t want to do anything.

I’m giving my power away to my feelings.

Of course that if I start doing my work, which I love to do, all these feelings and thoughts start to go away.

I was going to write stupid thoughts, but the truth is they aren’t stupid. They’re just your ego, that wants to protect you. The intention is good, the methods are awful ;) So you can say thank you and move on. Or you can see your patterns, what you’ve been saying to yourself. See that they are lies and keep going for your vision.

So anyway, I used to have a hard time understanding this phrase: “Giving my power away”.

What did it mean even?

Now it’s obvious to me.

You are giving your power away anytime you blame anyone else for where you’re at, or your inability to go where you want to go.

You’re giving your power away anytime you blame anyone else for anything whatsoever.

You’re giving your power away even when you say your feelings are other’s responsability.

No one can make you feel anything, unless you already have that feeling inside of you.

You’re giving your power away anytime you don’t take 100% responsability for anything happening in your life.

So to be powerful, to take your power back.

It’s really easy.

Start by taking 100% responsability for everything you see in your life right now.

You have created your life. You create everthing around you. Your reality, what you see, is what you have inside of you.

So you have all the power to change it.

Nobody can stop you.

Nobody can delay you.

You are your worst enemy if you can’t see this and you go on blaming others.

But you are your best friend if you can see the truth and go forward knowing you are the creator of everything in your life. And you can create anything you want.

So what’s it gonna be?

Who is to blame today?

Anyone else?

Also, it’s not good to blame yourself. You aren’t to blame because you have been conditioned to see the world in a certain way. You did what you did to protect yourself and survive. You’ve done quite well until now.

And now that you’re ready for something else you know the first step:

Take 100% responsability for your life.

And go forward in the direction of your dreams, no matter what happens or what others are doing.

Focus on yourself.

You have all the power.


P.S. Wanna know more about creating the life of your dreams? About going confidently for what you want? I have a new coaching package, a beta version actually, based on the new methods, tools, techniques I’m learning, in the life coach course I’m taking.

The course is based on Jungian psychology and we do a lot of inner work, so you can make your emotions work for you and help you get where you want to go.

If you want to know more, send me a message here or to

I have 2 spots available and I’m doing a good price because I’m starting to apply these new methods and techniques now.

If you want to make your emotions and feelings work for you. If you want to go confidently in the direction of your dreams. And be really unstoppable in the pursuit of the life you want.

Send me a message today. Let’s make 2020 the best year ever.

I know it’s going to be the best year of my life.

What about you? xxx

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