Today I wanted to ask you this question, because I realized something in an event I atended this weekend.

I really loved the event and we talked about our values and our beliefs.

We answered this question:

What is most important in life?

Write down your answer before reading the rest. And write whatever comes first to your mind.


What you wrote, is your most important value.

What did I write? Love.

Of course, I thought to myself. Everyone is going to write love. But that wasn’t the case (although many people also wrote love).

And for me, a big important part of love is my family.

Then we did another exercise around beliefs and letting go of beliefs that have been with us and that are stopping us.

One of those beliefs for me was I’m inferior, I’m not as good as others, I’m not deserving.

Of course most or all of us have this belief of not being enough. But maybe in various degrees ;).

Because after and during the event I found myself doing things that I wasn’t doing before.

I’ve been focusing too much on my business. I’ve been feeling that my family is sitting behind, it’s not my priority anymore. I’m so focused on my business that I don’t see anything else.

But I realized in the event that this isn’t aligned with my values. Because for me love is first, and a big part of it is my family.

Of course love is also part of my business, and now that I know this value I can focus even more on making my business one a business I adore.

But I want to have a complete life and to give focus and attention to all the things that are important to me.

And my family is one of them, so I’ve been acting differently.

Little things like yesterday I did a banana bread, because my son asked me for a cake. Usually I end up not doing it, because “I didn’t have the time”.

But time, where you put your time, is what you’re really dedicating your life too. Your time is valuable and it shows, it really shows, what are your priorities in life now.

If your priority is your family and love, like in my case, are you really dedicating time to that? Or are you saying that it’s your priority, but then don’t have time for it?

What happens then is that you’re not connected anymore. You start to feel disconnected from your life. Something is off, because you’re not being true to yourself. To who you really are.

Of course, you can also change your values. Sometimes your values have been conditioned by society, but they’re not what you really feel is the best for you, or for your life.

And you can decide that another value will be your priority.

And how do you know what your priorities are right now? By what you dedicate time to.

So that’s what I wanted to share today!

What did you write? What do you value the most?

Is that a value that you want to keep as your first priority?

If it’s yes: What action can you take today? How much time are you going to dedicate to living in alignment with who you are? With what means the most to you?

If it’s no: What do you want your first value to be? What would make you happier? Or what do you need to focus on now? You can always change your values ;)

Lots of love,

P.S. I was going to end the launch of my new coaching package last week, but I didn’t have time because of the event.

So I’m going to end it this week!

One thing we learned about also was sales. And how it’s of service to sell. Most people don’t like to sell. Most people think it’s icky because of all the hard selling that exists.

But we are always selling and selling is helping, when you have a good product that really can help others.

I know that this coaching package can change your life. The methods I use in it, changed mine.

And it also includes the style course I wish I had when I was feeling completely lost about my own style, and how to combine pieces to make beautiful outfits.

If you want to have more power and confidence in your life, this is a great combination for you. It includes 1:1 coaching to move forward in the direction of your goals, and the style course to help you feel more beautiful, along the way.

I think this is the best time to change your life. To go for your dreams. To prepare to a better life and to start creating it now.

And I’m talking about defining goals and going for them, really doing it. Not wishing and hoping. Hope isn’t good enough for you. I know that if you’re a high-achiever and want the best for your life, you can do it.

You have the drive, you have the passion, everything you need is already inside of you. You just need to let it out. To become the person you’re meant to be.

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