Today I want to ask you – what are you focusing on?
🌧 Are you focusing on where you’re not yet, on why you can’t do it?
🌧 Are you focused on doubting yourself, questioning what you’re doing?
🧚♂️ Or are you focused on where you’re going?
If I’m focused on my goal, on what I want, the right ideas come to me. The right steps come to me.
But if I’m focused on why it’s not here yet, I get more of it not being here yet.
Maybe it’s the man, maybe it’s the business, the influence or success.
Whatever it is, if you start doubting yourself and the capacity to make it happen, you get more doubt and more proof of how you can’t make it happen.
Like writing this post. Whenever I’m writing or some times at least, I question it. Is this the right thing to say? Should I do it shorter, or more to the point?
Am I rambling too much? Does this even matter? The doubts are there, they’re there for everyone.
Our ego won’t just LEAVE. US. ALONE!
Ok, I know I’m not supposed to resist the ego, what we resist persists and the ego is just there to keep us safe so yes, I can thank the ego.
💪 Thank you ego, for trying to keep me safe, but I know what I’m doing.
💪 I’m my true self now. I’ll just keep doing what I have decided to do. Even if you don’t like it right now. Even if you’re doing everything you can to stop me.
💪 Sit back and enjoy the ride ego, won’t you?
Lol, just let yourself do what you have to do.
Maybe it’s writing, speaking or doing a course. Maybe it’s teaching people that thing you learned and think it’s invaluable to the World.
Whatever it is, don’t let your ego stop you.
✨ It will try to focus on how it’s not working, so redirect the focus to what’s working. What’s great. Your vision and goals. That’s where you’re going, when you can focus on it.
✨ The hardest work is to think. We try to run away from it, but it’s needed to really advance and decide and so… keep your mind in the right place, with the right focus, and things will start to happen.
Keep it in doubt and lack, and things will keep being doubt and lack.
So choose wisely ;)
Lots of love,
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