Today I wanted to tell you why you don’t have style, yet.
Even if you’ve been wanting it, for a long time!
And it’s because you haven’t really decided. You haven’t decided that you’re going to make it a realily, no matter what. And then, backed yourself, with the needed actions.
You see, there’s no use in wishing and wanting. We all wish and want a lot of things. But until we make a definite decision and then start to act, in the direction of what we want… nothing happens.
You need to decide first, that is the most powerful move. It’s in the moments of decision, that our life is shapped – a phrase from Tony Robbins.
But it’s not, ok it’s decided. And then you go on with your usual life, doing what you’re used to do.
It’s decided and now you’re going to start acting for it.
And when you make the decision, or even to be able to make a decision, you need to believe in yourself. You need to believe you can do it.
If you’re in the state of: I wish I had style, I wish I could look like that, I wish I knew what to wear today, I wish I wish I wish…
But you then think: Yeah, but it’s too hard for me, I’ll never have style. Or this is so frustrating, why can’t I get it right… you aren’t in the right state of mind, to get what you want, which is to have style.
To have style, you need to believe you can have style. Get out of all the stories: No, I can’t because I’m too fat, I’m too old, I can’t figure it out, I don’t have the style genes…
No, there are no style genes. It’s something that you can learn, like anything else. And it’s something that you can decide to have, like anything else.
And when you make a real decision, then the right actions will come to you. When you are clear on what you want, when you believe you can have it, you start to have ideas, see possibilities. And then you just need to act.
It’s not – I’ve decided, I’m clear, and now I’m going to sit here on the couch, waiting for what I want to come to me. The Law of attraction isn’t that. It’s that you attract, with your thoughts, what you want. You receive what you want, by acting.
So, the quick 4 steps to have style, if you really want to, this year:
1. Decide you are going to get stylish, this year
2. Believe you can get stylish, this year
3. Set a goal of having style so you know what you’re going for
4. Be aware of the ideas, the inspired actions that you have, and follow them, always.
This is a quick overview of what you need to do :)
So get on with it ;)
Lots of love,
P.S. If you want more help and a complete process to set your style goal for this year, I have something that can help you!
I love setting goals and knowing what I’m working for each year. Do you love it too?
This is the last day to get access to my Set Your Goals: Create Your Epic Life masterclass. You can get it below:
Set Your Goals: Create Your Epic Life masterclass – http://store.lenapenteado.com/masterclass-setyourgoals
Next, it’s going to be a paid training.
I’m also sending you some of my goals boards from this year (I’m finishing this week), and a very quick way to do them.
In the masterclass I show you the complete process on how to reach your goals, like having style.
If style is your goal for this year, you’ll learn how to do it in the workshop. And I also share how I worked on my style goal this year.
Get the free chapter "10 Styling Rules to Create Amazing Outfits", from my style e-book