So yesterday was our trip to Algarve and here’s what I learned: I learned that shit goes wrong and we get tired and feelings become overwhelming and that’s OK. I think the problem is when we start to make ourselves wrong about it. Blaming yourself for feeling bad, for “ruining the vacation” and other stories that can come up when you’re feeling bad. The problem started because I had to paint my hair and I couldn’t do it before the trip (for lack of organization, as per usual). So I scheduled it for Algarve, right after our trip. But it was in a shopping mall much farther away then the one I thought I was booking for. So the trip was going to take more time. It’s important to say at this point that I hate long car rides. I know this is also a belief and from the ego…